Most drama or comedy movies, dealing with sexual urges and practices some might consider as deviant, usually adopt a priggish or mocking tone. This 2002 movie, starring James Spader as a businessman with some unusual quirks, and Maggie Gyllenhaal as the new secretary who finds she likes the restrictions and control he offers, makes it a tender love story instead – though with some very funny moments. And some frankly sexy ones, too.